How To Become a Magical Love Magnet

FLIRT TIP 1: Toss them a Crumb

This technique will quickly transform you into the love magnet you were always intended to be! The next time that an intriguing male crosses your path, simply compliment something he's wearing or doing.

Casting a small crumb of approval will have an amazing "open sesame" effect on any man. He will happily chirp away with anyone that's smart enough to notice his fine feathers... or his waterproof sports watch! 

MAN FACT: Men love to be admired. So simply use this character trait to your romantic advantage!

Here's why...

Men are externally referenced. (Example: They cuddle up with magazines about breasts, cars, & gadgets). Conversing with them about any gizmo is always the best way to draw them out.

WARNING: Never compliment a man on his physique (that's how males like to flirt with you.) It'll only serve to embarrass or confuse him about what your romantic intentions are. Unless he's 22. Then go right ahead and spell it out for him!

TRUE STORY: I once tossed, "Nice tie!" over my shoulder to a gorgeous man while walking down the red carpet at a film premiere. He grinned and removed the article from his neck in one smooth move and proudly handed it to me, to the delight of his little entourage.

(I used it to tie him to my bedpost one rainy evening...but I'll tell you that story later!)

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